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Ya-dom: Nasal Inhaler

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The city of Bangkok, with its mazelike interconnecting streets and tiny sois, is endowed with plenty of strange things to feast one’s curious eyes upon. Here, you will find pushcart stalls selling edible pig’s body parts and guts, deep-fried insect snackables, and even a couple of elephants strolling down the sidewalks…and this is just to name a few. 

For us locals, things that were mentioned above are nothing to get excited about. But the tourists! They get so easily worked up over these things it’s quite funny, actually. I have seen foreigner friends staring in disbelief (with dropped jaws and all) at a little old Thai lady who appeared to have jammed a lipstick look-alike up her nostril. They couldn’t comprehend what she was doing until I explained that what the lady had up her nose was in fact a ‘ya-dom’, or stick-type inhalant used to clear nasal congestion and help free the breathing system.

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Working with Asians

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Asians are collectivists by nature. The need to become part of a group, for many of us, is one of the many essentials that make life more ‘complete’.

Maybe this is why: a) establishing connections and b) networking play such important roles in determining the level of success and happiness in our lives.

And we are trained to do so from very young age…

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Cash gifting

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Some people (Westerners especially) might say “giving money as gift is so tacky!” And that includes those who give out gift vouchers and such as presents. The general rendition for this type of gift giver is that they are totally inconsiderate and super-crude when comes to social etiquette.  But we Asians think that cash gifting is just plain brilliant!

Why suffer through the pain of having to act happy when opening one present after another (none of which you like) in front of people (whose attention is focused on whether your reaction is genuine), when you could be given envelope after envelope of cash AND the freedom to do whatever you please with it!

Yes, Asians are infamous for our practicality and the thrifty ways that we go about our lives. The stories about some Asian kid whose parents kept the plastic covers on their sofas or someone’s grandma who would wash and re-use disposable chopsticks from the restaurants? You better believe it.

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Haggling in markets

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Haggling, or bargaining, is an art form that requires quite a bit of skill and a lot of street smarts. Asians take pride in their abilities to get the desired goods at the lowest possible price, whether it is fruits, household items, cars, etc. – without pissing off the salesperson in the process.

For us, there is no such thing as a “correct” or “right” price. As long as both parties are happy with the transaction, it is “fair” and that is the sole reason why we haggle.

So, when a tourist chooses to give up this right without even trying (common excuse: “Why even bother? Things are dirt cheap here”) please know that you are committing a crime against the local economy. Agreeing to pay a price that is often four to five times the original cost, while it may be temporarily great for the business owners, is in effect putting the locals in a difficult spot where they’re left to deal with the inflation rates long after you guys have left the country.

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When can I slurp?

When in a ramen shop…

A couple of weeks back, the boyfriend and I decided to swing by this ramen noodle shop that is often raved about by critics for its bona-fide ramen taste.  

At the table next to us was a young Japanese gentleman who was shamelessly devouring his noodles. With every bite of his steamy noodles, came a toilet-flushing like sound as oodles of noodles were slurped from the bowl up into his waiting mouth. He was clearly enjoying his bowl of ramen while fully oblivious to his surroundings, which just happened to be a number of (mostly Thai) people staring and even giggling at him. 

The two of us looked at each other and simultaneously turned to look at the young man, fascinated by the sound he was making. Now, mind you, we both knew that the young man was practicing Japanese etiquette, indicating with his noisy slurps the level of enjoyment he was getting from the noodles. This devoting of yourself to the bowl is widely practiced in Japan. The problem was we were not in Japan…

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Can i touch your head?

I still cringe whenever something triggers my recollection of the day I introduced my 6”5’ tall, California born-and-raised boyfriend to my grandparents in Thailand.

Imagine the shock and stunned-look on my face (as well as on other relatives’ faces), as Dayne (that’s his name) flung his huge arm across my 80 year-old, 4”2’ grandma’s frail shoulders in an attempted bear-hug, thinking that he was showing affection in the friendliest way.

You should have seen the look on my granny’s face… it was a combination of surprise, fear, and disbelief rolled into one, quite hilarious in my opinion.

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What to wear for Asian weddings

Lots of people ask me what’s the appropriate thing to wear to a wedding, so here’s a breakdown for you….

At the ripe old age of 28, I’m finding myself making more and more appearances at friends’ wedding receptions. Compared to last year (when I attended zero wedding parties), this year sees a whopping increase with at least five wedding receptions attended so far.  And for the coming year, I have already RSVP-ed to two wedding parties. Whoa!

It seems like everybody in their late twenties suddenly realizes that this is their last chance to get hitched before the dreaded 3-0 creeps up on them. Anyhow, it was at these joyous-yet-super-boring, cookie-cutter wedding receptions that I often see foreigners (friends of the bride or groom) showing up wearing something red. More often than not, the guys come wearing either red neckties or red dress shirts, and the girls in red dresses.

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Where's the best place to surf in Asia?

Serious surfers may not think of Southeast Asia as the surfing destination of choice because of the general lack of decent-sized waves along the coastlines. Indonesia, though, is one exception. Unlike other beach destinations in SE Asia that have somewhat unreliable wave formations, this country of many islands boasts over a hundred plus excellent breaks, and is ranked in the top ten of the best surf sites in the world.

Professional and elite surfers flock to this popular destination, especially to the holiday islands of Kuta, Bali and the Mentawai Islands, to experience some of the best waves around. These areas, especially Bali, often see consistent waves up to four meters high from April to November.

For the more advanced, G-land (Grajagan) in East Java is an internationally-famed surf spot and an excellent stomping ground for those wanting to ride the world’s longest and fastest reef-breaks. Wave-hunters seeking awesome left-waves (waves breaking from right to left) will not be disappointed here.  Padang is another recommended site, with waves coming in from almost every direction, making it an attractive venue to find breaks with offshore conditions. The best time to visit is from March to October, while those looking for the biggest swells should head out there from June to September.

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